The length of a cremation service can vary depending on the wishes of the deceased or their family. There are multiple stages within a cremation service, including the actual cremation which generally happens once any attendees for the service have left.
There are various factors that can influence the overall timeline of cremation, it is a straightforward and respectful process that typically takes between one and three hours. This can vary due to crematorium processes and individual circumstances.
How long is a cremation service?
Cremation services can vary in length, but typically last around 30 to 45 minutes. Some families may opt for shorter ceremonies, while others may include additional elements like longer eulogies or musical selections.
If the deceased had specific wishes for the ceremony, these will be incorporated into the service. This might involve favourite hymns, poems, or personal stories that can often mean the cremation service is slightly longer than you would usually expect.
What is a typical cremation order of service?
While there can be variations, most traditional cremation services follow a similar structure. There can be differences depending on religion and the wishes of the family or deceased, but for the most part, cremations tend to observe the following order.
Entering into the crematorium
The deceased and their close family will normally arrive at the crematorium or place of worship together. If pallbearers have been chosen, they will carry the coffin into the chapel and place it on a raised platform.
The service
The service often starts with a few words from a celebrant or a family member. These words often share stories about the deceased and how they touched the lives of others. This is known as a eulogy.
During the service, people may stand to read poetry or other meaningful selections. Music, hymns and singing are also common.
Many attendees share personal memories of the deceased, which can often include humorous anecdotes.
Closing the service
The service concludes with final words from the celebrant or family member. There will then normally be the opportunity for close family to approach the coffin and say a final goodbye.
As attendees leave the crematorium or place of worship, they may listen to a final piece of music. The curtains around the coffin may be closed or left open, depending on the family’s preference.
After the service, friends and family have the opportunity to offer condolences to the immediate family members.
Post-cremation
Many families choose to hold a celebration of life or wake after the cremation service. This can be a gathering at a pre-arranged venue such as a local pub, community hall, or even at home.
While the celebration can be held on a different day, it’s often held shortly after the cremation service.
Learn more about cremations from Golden Charter
If you’re planning ahead and trying to help loved ones by opting for a funeral plan, you can learn more by reading our frequently asked questions.
If you need further help after that, please contact us and we’ll be happy to help – no matter the question.
